Oh and did i mention, my wife's got the look of kirsten.
Same problem here, I quess its the whole blond hair/blue eyes/high cheekbones/rockin body/awesome personality thing...I feel my crush on Kirsten is a proxy crush on my wife and vice-versa!

Plus Kirsten has a "next-door girl" looks and charm that makes her seem approachable and real, not some plastic Hollywood/media-pushed celebrity. Sure, she gets all wrapped up in that, but dont you feel she could just say "Forget it, Im going to quit this all and go paint." Oh wait, nevermind...
